Being able to share these experiences with my family certainly means a lot to me. I’ve had opportunities to thank my mother and brothers for their ongoing love and support as I received my diploma or presented a piece of scholarly work at a symposium. I talk to my mother every week, and just about every conversation we have starts with her asking, “How’s school?” It may seem like a simple question, but that semblance of normalcy means more than I can put into words.
Many of my fellow students have shared similar experiences, with some saying that events like graduations are the first time they’ve felt proud and seen pride in the faces of loved ones in a long time. I’ve watched many men cry when addressing their mothers, fathers, siblings, and especially their children. I will never tire of watching men who experience feelings of guilt because they can’t play bigger roles in their children’s lives or worry that their children think of them as failures see the inspired looks in their children’s eyes when they graduate or present their work at a symposium. These types of events pay dividends because they give other residents opportunities to see the many benefits education offers.
When others see students taking pride in their work, becoming more confident, developing new skills, or growing as individuals, they want to get involved too. When people have something to strive for, they start changing their thinking and behaviors. Once enrolled, they tend to maintain those behaviors so that they can stay in the program. It’s probably not a coincidence that there’s been a noticeable decline in serious incidents at the prison over the years.
It would be irresponsible to say that those numbers are down solely because of the college program. The Maine DOC has made other changes that have helped to make facilities safer. But it would be equally irresponsible to overlook the role that the college program has played. Even staff members who once may have questioned the merits of letting people attend college while incarcerated are acknowledging the positive impact of educational programs. Some have told me that they’ve watched men who seemed unlikely to change their ways ultimately succeed in getting onto more positive pathways through participation in the program.